To all my dearest, got to make myself clear that no one particular is on my mind when i made this post, just in case if any of u misunderstood that im defaming you yea.

"next time ba"
"so few people ar? next time la"
"errr dunno leh dont feel like, next time ba"

guess the above phrases are very common among us people. well sometimes its perfectly fine to say "next time", whether its because of the smallest reason or really cant go, its okay. but dont let "next time" be just an excuse.

how many "next time"s are there in our lives?

how are you so sure that you will still be living the next hour?

the next day?
next week?
next month?

im not over exaggerating things, but the fact is, you never know when you will die, life is a funny thing, who knows, maybe you've got a heart failure all of a sudden, its not common but its definitely not new. maybe you fall in your house and crack your head and die?

you may laugh at the thoughts of it, but the truth is, are you so sure that it 100% wont occur to you? for the benefits of the doubt i'd say that probably 99.99% it wont, but theres still a 0.01% it may happen, maybe its a 0.001%, or a 0.0001%, the point is, no matter how low the percentage is, the fact is, as long as its not 100%, theres no certainty.

no people that involved in accidents will predict beforehand that they will get into one, it is not called "accident" without a reason.

how are we so sure that we will not get into an accident? its just based on the assumptions that "we are not so suay (unlucky)", then again, everyone thinks so too, so does that means that everyone will not get into an accident? apparently no.

so what if you are "sure" you wont get into an accident, are you so sure the person whom you say "next time" to will be as lucky as you? again, you never know, this is life afterall, strange things happened.

recently i found out a colleague back in my attachment days was killed in an accident, i was shocked, the last time i saw him he's nothing but healthy, nothing that gives signs that he's gonna passed away few months later, im naive for saying so thou, when will people give signs that he/she will be caught in an accident?

it's really a slap of reality, because things happened without logic, people can just go that way.

maybe i just hate it when "next time" becomes nothing but an excuse to another "next time", which leads to more "next time"s, and how many "next time"s do we have in life? then again, you never know